Its always Me, Me, Me, with our eyes closed. But
if we open our eyes, there is a world beyond us and they all are seeking help.
There are people who are depressed, people who
are under-privileged and then there are those who have limited ability to
think. We, with a stable mind, can help them by understanding their behavior
and helping them overcome the obstacles.
Mentally challenged person has multiple
disabilities too. To help them, first we have to understand what is the
behavior we would like to change and what is the desired behavior we want the
child to follow. To get the best results it is important to join the frame mind
of the child and test the waters to see what their limits are.
Every child is always in the process of observing
his/her surroundings and taking in the sensory information. How this
information is processed determines how the child perceives his/her
surroundings and behaves accordingly.
Neuro Linguistic Learning (NLL) is the new area
of study that deals with human communication and the way we think and do things
in essence to our mental makeup, our emotions and our senses.
Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a very
useful tool for instilling positive behavior changes. It uses different areas
of brain to create a change in a child. The core of NLP is modeling excellence
of top performers as well as explaining how different people organize their
thinking, feeling, language and behavior to produce the result they do.
Let me explain with an example.
Suppose you are a great fan of superstar, Salman
Khan. Every movie of Salman Khan you will watch. You will observe him closely,
studying his behavior, his style, his way of talking and dancing, his tone and
the words used, his confidence, his body language. Then you ‘model’ the
techniques you observed until they become the natural habit in your own life.
Thus the mind can be trained in the behavior we
want to. It can be used for self-improvement too.
A two-day workshop on NLP is happening in Mumbai
on 8-9 June 2013 and on 10-11 August at Marol Maroshi road, Andheri. Click here to register.
After the completion of this workshop you become
aware of the language you use while communicating with yourself and with
others.
You understand the difference in communication at
the conscious and the unconscious level.
You develop the ability to perform at your best,
to tap your true potential and become a powerful communicator.
You can have a better understanding of how you
think, process information and help others to do the same.
You begin to understand why people do what they
do and learn to respect them for what they are.
You learn to gain rapport easily with different
types of people and are able to influence people for long-term changes in their
life.
You learn to adopt some of new thought patterns,
new thinking strategies, some of the new beliefs and which would undoubtedly be
more effective in your work life.
Basically, Neuro Linguistic programming is the
study and practice of techniques that use the mind-body connection and the
language to alter human behavior.
You can expect to learn skills and thinking that
will enhance the way you manage yourself as well as others, the way you
communicate, influence, negotiate and manage change.
For more information on this subject, click here.
